In Reply to: Why Are Guys So Uncomfortable With Homosexuality While Women Are (Generally) So Cool About It?.... posted by Draz on June 2, 2007 at 08:52:34:
Maybe I hang out with a more sexually secure class of men? Seriously, most of my friends consider a person's sexuality to be a) not a big deal and b) none of their business.
IMO an individual's sexual preference falls somewhere in a multi-dimensional spectrum that includes varying degrees of homosexual and heterosexual preference, varying degrees of age and appearance preference and varying degrees of interest, not to mention a million and one excursions from the norm in terms of preference or rejection of particular acts or modalities.
I'm not sure why the sexual preference for the same sex (especially among men) seems to creep some people out. It's a big wide wonderful world of variety out there, guys - homosexuality is one of the most banal preferences from a smörgåsbord of variety. Given he widespread appearance of homosexuality in the animal kingdom, why should we feel that its human expression is anything but natural?
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Follow Ups
- They are? Odd, very few of the men I know are uncomfortable either with idea or the individuals - GliderGuider 06/2/0714:10:59 06/2/07 (23)
- RE: natural or not it's unhealthy for humans - Jon L5 15:52:40 06/2/07 (0)
- 2d question. So since animals allegedly exhibit homosexual behaviors.. - MMasztal 14:22:16 06/2/07 (3)
- What do you mean by "OK"? - GliderGuider 14:27:39 06/2/07 (2)
- I mean permissable...nt - MMasztal 14:30:50 06/2/07 (1)
- Permissible by whom? - GliderGuider 14:33:52 06/2/07 (0)
- Note to self: Do Not Pass Out Around GliderGuider.........n/t - John EH 14:19:33 06/2/07 (3)
- Why? - GliderGuider 14:32:10 06/2/07 (2)
- Holy Shit.....You're making the homophobia kick in.......... - John EH 14:59:06 06/2/07 (1)
- Hey, what could be more manly than two men sharing their manhood? - GliderGuider 15:10:26 06/2/07 (0)
- Ahh! The free thinker! So then are pedophilia, beastiality and golden showers..., - MMasztal 14:19:05 06/2/07 (13)
- None of these activities is limited to same sex activity - suits_me 15:11:05 06/2/07 (4)
- My point was are: these activities on the smorgasbord? - MMasztal 15:16:37 06/2/07 (3)
- If you were concerned with those activities you would rail against those avtivities - suits_me 15:34:53 06/2/07 (2)
- Again, read the thread. It's about homosexuality.. nt - MMasztal 16:08:10 06/2/07 (1)
- And again, the activities you brought up which titillate you are by no means aligned with one orientation - suits_me 21:02:59 06/2/07 (0)
- RE: Ahh! The free thinker! So then are pedophilia, beastiality and golden showers..., - GliderGuider 14:22:16 06/2/07 (7)
- Please explain why you've interjected the arbitrary "non-consentual" stipulation... - MMasztal 14:28:41 06/2/07 (6)
- RE: Please explain why you've interjected the arbitrary "non-consentual" stipulation... - GliderGuider 14:35:17 06/2/07 (5)
- Who says it has to require consent? - MMasztal 14:43:54 06/2/07 (4)
- The law simply follows where the people lead. - GliderGuider 14:49:51 06/2/07 (3)
- But slavery is still practiced in many countries... - MMasztal 15:13:39 06/2/07 (2)
- And it's still wrong in those countries. - GliderGuider 15:34:59 06/2/07 (1)
- You are consistent with your beliefs... - MMasztal 16:02:22 06/2/07 (0)